A Curious Thought: What’s Inside a Bad Boy’s Pair of Pants?

What does action star Robin Padilla, former president Joseph Estrada, and cosmetic surgeon-turned-celebrity Hayden Kho have in common with Hollywood stars James Dean, Collin Farrel, and Robert Downey, Jr.?

Unless you’re a brooding man who can make women want to drop everything and land in your brawny arms every time something unfriendly comes their way, most men have all went through devastating heartaches at some point in their lives. We’ve seen it a thousand times—nice guys getting dumped and friend-zoned over stoic, devastatingly gorgeous, distressed men reminiscent of Damon Salvatore and Edward Cullen, who can make even blood sucking look sexy. What is it about bad boys that put sparkle in women’s eyes, glow in their cheeks, and blood rushing into their veins and other lovely parts?

No, this is not another story about vampires who sparkle in the midday sun while wearing outrageously pale faces and pouted lips. This is the truth that young boys long to discover, grown ups laugh about, and our grandpas love to revisit. This is the story of every Adam that will never be written in the history of mankind.

Three-time best-selling author and 30th National Book Awards finalist RJ Ledesma unravels how this and other crazy, perplexing phenomena are taking place, as he launches his fourth book “It Only Hurts When I Pee, RJ Ledesma’s Guide on Bodily Gases, Hair Loss and Pink Parts.” The book, distributed by Anvil Publishing, is a compilation of the ridiculously truthful, self-aware and highly comical chronicles of the less hygienic male species based on curious epic research, thorough investigation and, ahem, first-hand experience.

From the freshly squeezed brain juices of RJ Ledesma, the book and all its 167 pages tackles amusing topics and antics, including classic and epic details in the Pinoy dating and mating scenes, and male entertainment created simply by grimy fingers and a lack of good taste.

Wonder why bad guys often become the object of romance by women who, in RJ’s own word, desire “to increase the country’s current voting population”? Let the entrepreneur, multimedia practitioner, yogi and author of Lies My Yaya Should Have Told Me (2008), I Do or I Die (2009), and Is It Hot In Here Or Is It Me? (2010) tickle your funny bone and usher you into testosterone land with his newest masterpiece guaranteed to make you pee to your heart’s content.

Perfect Vanity for your Home

They say that home is where the heart is. After a long work, we always wanted to go to a warm and cozy place and that's what we called home. We wanted to improve the look of our house and one trick to do the job is to install vanity mirrors that will serve as a double purpose.  Vanity accessories had been associated with style, luxury and elegance and that's

what others always wanted to achieve.    

Modern houses had their home simple and clean and it doesn't need to elaborately redesign your home to get the necessary ambiance you wanted to create. Just choose the style and design that will create a pleasant and wonderful environment for you and your family.  If you think stylish vanity accessories can cost you a fortune, you are seeing it all wrong.  Although vanities are important to match the modern atmosphere, what is far more important is it reflect your personality and compliment your style.  Custom pieces and vanity lighting for our bedrooms and bathrooms can be a great addition to complete the look and sometimes it was incorporated around mirrors to fully create the illusion that we wanted to achieve. 

Choosing the right vanity accessories for our house especially to our bathroom will add value to it and to create the elegance and the sense of comfort that we wanted to achieve. 

Bunk Beds for the Kids

After several thoughts on what would be the best bed we could have for the kids room, we thought that bunk beds are most suitable for them. Considering that we are talking about a small room here, we need to maximize the place and create an atmosphere that is also suitable for children. 

After hubby painted the room, the next thing we need to plan is picking the bed. For a place that has only a considerable space, you need to think of options that can mutually benefit your kids as well as would not sacrifice your budget.  Bunk beds are great space saver and you can even choose to personalized them by painting them on what style you would like your children to have or you can buy online on whatever choice you would like.   It can also create bonding moment between your children who would share the room.  

Although, I can see one problem on it and that is if your children is still small and she might fall on the ladder while climbing up or getting down.  There is also a possibility that each of them wanted the top bed nor the bottom one but of course, this is all depends on how you will talk with them. 

Many parents are now choosing bunk beds for their children because its practical and convenient and the possibility are endless and of course it saves you money and space. 

Insurance and Plans

With the different news in the net about insurance company who was not able to pay  claims from their plan holders was somehow alarming. I have always high belief in insurance because my grand mother was once an underwriter and she had earned her living dealing with insurances and plans.  I remember, she always told me to save up for the future and think of the benefits I could get if i have one.  


Thinking of all the good benefits you will never had second thought of getting a health insurance and East Coast Health Insurance is just one of the many insurance company who provide services for their consumers without thinking much on high would they income be.  Health providers had been in the business for years and it's quite good to know that they have been able to help many people if in case there would be some emergency health problems in your family.  


I have always wanted to have a health insurance, i remember my doctor is even the one who suggested to me that I should get one if i wanted to pursue with the operation.  It would be a great help for me but honestly, there are lots of important things i needed to pay and i could not afford it this time. 


But if there would be an instances that i needed to get, i would surely choose someone I can trust just like East Coast Health insurance which provides affordable plans. 

Remembering Mauricia

A day to remember the love you gave me, the care that you showed and all the teachings you have given me.  You are like my second mother and I will be forever grateful to you for giving so much courage.  

Today as we remember your birthday, I wish that you are happy and contented wherever you are because you deserve so much. I wanted you to know that my heart misses you and i can't help to be sad when I remember you. But the joy of knowing that you are with our creator makes me smile.  

The teachings you left me is enough to make me through the rainy days. I know that you are smiling now at me, wiping my tears and lovingly holding me.  Thank you and Happy Birthday! 

M - other of mine, oh! how I miss you

O-nward since that day you went away; 

T-oday on your birthday, I love you so,

H-ow long I've missed you, you'll never know; 

E-choes of your words keep coming back to me

R-emembered thru the years through only a memory. 

Mauricia S. De Guzman 

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